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    • March 17, 2015 5:16:22 PM PDT
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      Sex without romance?

      Personally I can't enjoy sex without romance, there is no more enjoyment out of it than masturbating so I don't see the point. Is that unusual? It certainly doesn't seem normal among my peers.

    • March 18, 2015 4:29:09 AM PDT
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      Sex without romance?

      Honestly it may not be normal , but I think it is healthier.

    • March 23, 2015 10:18:12 PM PDT
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      Sex without romance?

      I've been pondering about my stance on sex and romance lately as well, and though they CAN be mutually exclusive, it's best when they overlap.

      I guess the only "exception" is sex with a close friend that you find physically attractive.

      Trust and comfort are key to good sex (at least for me!!!) because it allows me to express myself freely without fear of judgement, and those are also key elements to a healthy relationship, so they go hand in hand. :)

      It's amazing to share such an intimate, ethereal, yet raw moment with someone that you connect to mentally.

      Then again... I've never had sex with anyone that I wasn't romantically involved with, so my opinion is probably biased. lulz.

    • March 25, 2015 6:25:23 PM PDT
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      @Metalheart I don't think it's unusual, I think it depends on how much you like stimulating your Sensing preference. Personally I don't usually enjoy activities that don't involve thought in some way, but there are a couple of exceptions for me (music as a sensory experience, etc).

      Behaviorally, I'm of a mind with Zenith, and consider sex as an intimate-only activity that requires a strong emotional /and/ intellectual bond. Part of that comes from not really being able to objectify people, but it's mostly because I look for fulfillment in anything I do.

      So you're not alone there.

    • August 15, 2015 4:01:41 AM PDT
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      Sex without romance?

      For me sex has to have some kind of connection, but it does not have to be romance.
      I think sex has so much social stigma surrounding it, we call all berate ourselves for not falling within social norms, but when we are just us, doing it the way we do, thats right for us and our partner, maybe thats the most beautiful kind of sex - and anyway whats normal?

    • April 18, 2017 9:49:10 PM PDT
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      Sex without romance?

      Empty meaningless sex? Nope. Very unappealing,

      This post was edited by ForestDaiva at April 18, 2017 9:52:21 PM PDT
    • May 17, 2017 8:59:31 PM PDT
    • Sex without romance?

      ISTP's are usually very happy with sex and no romance.

    • May 21, 2017 8:42:11 AM PDT
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      Sex without romance?

      I am not going to say I've never had, shall we call it a casual romantic encounter? And there have been times when I've sought it out in lieu of having a deeper connection.

      I think the natural state of most humans is for sex to be within the context of a generally monogamous relationship. It leads to fewer hurt feelings. I largely believe there is a biological connection here that must go back about 250,000 years or so. By this I mean that if the female is incapacitated with a child, she's depending on the male to hunt and provide for her. So should a woman trust a man enough to want physical connection, she wants him to stay with her, at least, for awhile. It's genetically programmed. And when a woman has sex with a man, the man will feel, generally speaking, more attracted to her. I also largely believe this is programmed.

      Anyway, I think most people would prefer to have sex within monogamous (or generally so) relationships. Me? I crave that 1 on 1 connection with someone who "gets" me (and I them), someone I find fun to be with and who is my intellectual match. So, yeah, monogamy when I find a deep relationship is what I'm seeking.

      Was chatting with a coworker (INFJ) who has a friend who was involved in a polyamorous relationship. Deep down, the friend admitted that she wasn't in it for very long because it bred jealousy. Not saying that a group relationship couldn't or wouldn't work, but I don't think it's something that I'd prefer, variety or not. I'm looking for sex within a deep connection. Would think it hard to find in polyamory, and particularly within polyandry.

    • June 22, 2018 11:16:33 PM PDT
    • Sex without romance?

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