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    • November 15, 2015 8:51:03 AM PST
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      mistaking the deep well for a shallow pool

      Ive been reading a lot of posts on this site and even things i read online about enfps and i feel like our depth of feeling, intuition, and understanding is very often overlooked. of course this is me personalizing it and has more to do with a lack of validation in my own life but i was just wondering if other enfps out there are feeling invalidated in this way as well. we arent just a shiny fun sugary empty candy shell we are the deep intense mindful caring chocolate center as well (i really like tootsie pops =P)

    • January 10, 2016 11:05:26 PM PST
    • mistaking the deep well for a shallow pool

      I understand exactly what you mean.

      I've encountered this in my life a few times. People that I've grown up with might mislabel and not understand my personality. More often they assume there is only a friendly and silly layer with nothing underneath.

      As I've gotten older I've noticed that people have a better understanding of the way I operate and communicate. Specifically they might realize the vast amount of substance that is carried with an ENFP.

      My cousin is a very pompous and arrogant person. He is under the impression that I'm unintelligent and incapable of acting serious. He often speaks up at family parties to put me down, and lays his hands on me in strange and threatening ways. (although I'm pretty sure he has some jealousy issues).

      I simply refuse to give my personality to these people. They can have the hollow illusion they see, that's perfectly fine with me. Some people don't deserve to be let in- I think that's a very important thing to remember for an ENFP.

    • February 1, 2016 6:54:00 AM PST
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      mistaking the deep well for a shallow pool

      The truth is really only seen in small face to face interactions where you're able to talk in depth with one person. For me, when I'm in huge groups, there's always a huge smile on my face and a desire to not just focus on one person. It can seem artificial on the surface.

      I've come to value intimate interactions a bit more.

    • November 14, 2017 11:32:12 PM PST
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